Elak Buat Perbandingan

Zaman kanak-kanak dan menerokai alam pengembaraan adalah fasa kehidupan yang menyeronokkan.

Bagi kanak-kanak yang tinggal di luar bandar, aktiviti fizikal luar seperti bermain pondok-pondok, polis dengan pencuri, menangkap ikan di kawasan bendang atau membuat layang-layang sudah menjadi kebiasaan.

Namun, bagi kanak-kanak yang tinggal di kawasan bandar terutama kota raya seperti Kuala Lumpur, aktiviti berkenaan mungkin terbatas kerana banyak masa dihabiskan dengan imaginasi intelektual menerusi gajet canggih seperti tab, ipad mahu pun permainan video.

Tidak kira berbentuk fizikal mahu pun intelektual, ibu bapa seharusnya berani mengambil risiko untuk membenarkan si cilik kesayangan meneroka dan mengembara alam kanak-kanak mengikut imaginasi mereka sendiri.

Pengasas Yayasan Kits4Kids, Profesor Dr Eric Lim berkata, sifat meneroka dan ingin tahu secara umumnya banyak berkait dengan sejauh mana keupayaan seseorang untuk menerima kesan di sebaliknya.

Jelasnya, terdapat dua jenis penerokaan kembara yang biasa dilakukan kanak-kanak iaitu membabitkan aktiviti fizikal dan teknologi intelektual.

“Penerokaan secara fizikal boleh dikategorikan sebagai apa juga aktiviti yang membabitkan fizikal (badan) dan boleh mengeluarkan peluh manakala teknologi intelektual pula hanya tertumpu kepada satu permainan sama ada di komputer, sebarang jenis android atau gajet pintar.

“Ramai ibu bapa menyedari hakikat berkenaan, namun sering berdepan dengan masalah untuk membenarkan anak mereka menerokai sesuatu secara sendirian.

“Ia adalah satu kerugian kerana mereka tidak dapat menerokai sepenuhnya keseronokan alam kanak-kanak,” katanya ketika ditemui pada sesi dialog Menjalani kembara dalam Kehidupan Bersama Anak anjuran Tiger Biskuat dan Mondolez Malaysia di ibu negara, baru-baru ini.

Hadir sama, Ketua Bahagian Biskut Mondelez Malaysia Jean Ler dan selebriti terkenal tanah air, Sharifah Sofia.

Menurut Dr Lim, kebanyakan ibu bapa yang tinggal di bandar hanya mendedahkan anak masing-masing kepada penerokaan secara intelektual saja di dalam rumah.

Situasi itu berlaku kerana mereka tidak mahu mengambil risiko mengenai keselamatan jika membiarkan anak bebas bermain di luar rumah tanpa perhatian orang dewasa. Baik berbentuk fizikal mahupun penerokaan secara intelektual, kedua-dua mempunyai kelebihan masing-masing.

Kedua-duanya perlu diseimbangkan dan ia seharusnya menjadi tanggungjawab ibu bapa bagi memastikan anak mereka dapat meneroka serta mengembara di alam kanak-kanak dengan lebih bermakna.

Katanya, perasaan ingin tahu serta ingin meneroka sesuatu yang baru itu ada ketika mendorong kanak-kanak bertindak di luar dugaan dan ada yang berani melakukan aktiviti luar secara sendirian.

“Kanak-kanak perlu dididik supaya berani menerokai sesuatu yang baru dan dalam hal itu, ibu bapa bertanggungjawab untuk membantu mereka.

“Ibu bapa perlu berani mengambil risiko bagi memberi anak masing-masing ruang untuk berdikari dan melakukan sesuatu mengikut imaginasi mereka sendiri,” katanya.

Menurut Dr Lim lagi, jika keadaan di luar rumah tidak mengizinkan, ibu bapa boleh mencipta sendiri permainan fizikal di dalam rumah yang lebih menarik.

“Penerokaan fizikal tidak semestinya memerlukan kanak-kanak keluar dari rumah dan bermain di bendang atau memanjat pokok buah-buahan.

“Sebaliknya, ibu bapa boleh mereka sendiri permainan yang lebih kreatif seperti main olok-olok untuk anak masing-masing di dalam rumah tanpa perlu mengeluarkan wang,” katanya.

Dalam pada itu, Dr Lim turut menyarankan ibu bapa supaya jangan sesekali membandingkan anak sendiri dengan orang luar kerana ia boleh menyebabkan mereka berasa jauh hati dan meminggirkan diri.

Setiap kanak-kanak mempunyai potensi masing-masing dan ia terpulang kepada ibu bapa bagaimana untuk mencungkilnya.

Anak adalah cermin kepada ibu bapa dan jika mereka gembira pasti orang tuanya juga gembira, begitulah sebaliknya.

“Setiap ibu bapa perlu menerima kelebihan atau kekurangan anak seadanya dan jangan sesekali membandingkan pencapaian atau keupayaan mereka dengan orang luar.

“Ini kerana perbandingan yang diterima terutama daripada ibu bapa boleh memberi tekanan kepada kanak-kanak dan secara tidak langsung menyukarkan mereka menyerlahkan bakat sendiri,” katanya.

Sementara itu, Sharifah Sofia ketika berkongsi pengalamannya dalam membesarkan dua anak berusia tiga tahun dan lima bulan berkata, dia mengajar anak sulungnya, Sharifah Ariana berdikari sejak kecil bagi memberinya peluang untuk menikmati alam kanak-kanaknya sendiri.

Kata Sharifah Sofia, Ariana akan dibiarkan melakukan aktiviti yang digemari dan ada kalanya dia turut bermain dengan anak sulungnya itu.

“Setiap kanak-kanak mempunyai imaginasi tersendiri dan sebagai ibu, saya mahu mindanya berkembang mengikut kreativitinya sendiri.

“Baik saya atau suami, kami membenarkan Ariana mencuba aktiviti yang dimahukan dan sedia mengambil risiko kerana apa yang penting dia dapat menjalani kehidupan dengan lebih bermakna,” katanya.

Sejak berumah tangga dan mempunyai anak, dia memperlahankan aktiviti seninya bagi memberi tumpuan sepenuhnya kepada keluarga. Malah Ariana boleh diumpamakan sebagai rakan baiknya ketika di rumah dan mereka boleh berbual apa saja seperti dewasa.

“Saya melayan dan bercakap dengan Ariana seperti orang dewasa. Jika tidak keluar ke mana-mana, kami akan bermain apa saja permainan yang dia gemari di rumah.

“Meskipun keadaan rumah kadang-kala seperti tongkang pecah kerana Ariana begitu kreatif mencipta permainan sendiri, saya dan suami tidak kisah kerana apa yang penting, dia gembira dan dapat menerokai kehidupan seperti kanak-kanak lain,” katanya.

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